100/0 Relationship

This is a classic case in majority of relationships and quite frankly...the reason why most people give up on finding love. We find ourselves victims of the "100/0 Relationship"...what is that you may ask? Well, I'll explain it with this a couple of situations:

- The times where you want to hang with your boo but they blow you off 95/100% of the time
- You call or text him/her more than he/she do
- You're the ONLY one that initiates a sensual moment & half the time they don't feel like "cuddling"
- They spend MORE time with their friends than with you

Kinda get it now? Well, to break it down, a "100/0 Relationship" is when you find yourself in a relationship with YOURSELF even though you're dating an actual living, breathing human being. It's when you show more affention, attention, & likeness/love to your partner than you receive. We've all experienced it & if you haven't, then more than likely you will.

Speaking from experience, I've been in an "100/0 relationship" for 7 months..don't get me wrong...it wasn't all bad but "bad" weighed more than "good". I was the one to call more, ask to hang out more, show affection & love more. I got it back, but every now & then....emphasis on the THEN! I was so stuck on having someone that I lost the main point of being in a HEALTHY relationship.

When you're in a relationship, it's supposed to be YOU & HIM/HER, not just YOU. Please remember this:

YOU DO NOT NEED TO HAVE SOMEONE TO MAKE YOU HAPPY! YOU HAVE YOURSELF!

Especially if you have to harm your heart doing it..you're not solving the problem. You're making it worse!

That's when you forget your standards. Because you're so stuck on having someone on your arms...you'll settle for anything & anyone just to have someone. That's crazy! People, why do we always have to suffer from the 100/0 Relationship? We always give more into it than we receive...


To be in a productive and a successful relationship means to not only give love, but to know that you're going to receive the same amount of love in the end... To all of my HARD lovers, I know how it feels..


To be blinded every single time by an fake imitation of what we think is love...and our hearts get broken constantly because we were too late to realize what was going on..but to all of you I say this:


LOVE HARD, BUT DON'T LOVE EASY...


We like everyone else need to be strong and wise about who we truly want in our lives...in these days, ANYBODY can talk their way into a "relationship", but it takes a good hearted person to filter out what qualities they really see fit to them... If we stop lying to ourselves and others and be true in knowing what we really want...then we will lessen the number of heartbreaks and depressions everywhere.


We are all destined for love...REAL LOVE..And when we find the one for us, it won't be a sense of "does he really love me" because if it's true and real...then it shouldn't be a 100/0..nor a 70/30, or 60/40..but a 50/50 Relationship..


So to all, don't give up on love...I know it hurts but through your hurting comes healing...you won't hurt always..that ONE for you is out there...


Waiting... To take you in and love you...


Love is such a beautiful and a good thing...


And if it is a good thing then it's meant for everyone to experience...but nothing can work if you don't believe that it will...you're gonna find that special someone..because the 100/0 thing..will be a thing of the past!