"No Homo"

You've heard it before and you've heard it being used over, and over, AND OVER again. But some of us fail to realize the reason on why do people (Mostly Straight males) feel the need to use the phrase "No Homo!"

To me, personally, I do not condone in the usage of the phrase "No Homo"...simply because of these reasons:

1. You already know who YOU are and should already expect the people you talk to to know that you're not a homosexual...

2. Consistency on using the word will have people begin to believe that you are indeed a Homo.

3. IT'S FREAKING ANNOYING!

Now to put it in urban terms:

I can't seem to figure out why STRAIGHT dudes feel the need to say the phrase "No Homo"...it's like you're saying: "I'm about to say a really gay comment but I will say 'No Homo' to let them know that I'm not a homosexual" but winds up telling another guy "You ji cute"

.....are you serious?

Then, as if it isn't bad enough that you're using the word...YOU DON'T KNOW WHEN TO USE IT!!

-"The test was hard, 'NO HOMO'" ----So, you're basically saying that test papers have a penis?

-"This line is long, 'NO HOMO'" ---Yeah, I can definitely see why you would use 'NO HOMO' for that...I mean that line's penis is practically HUGE!!

People, it's bad enough that you're using the phrase so much...but now you're just overdoing it by saying it when it DOESN'T NEED TO BE SAID! Come on guys, get serious.

Another thing that upsets me is, when I'm with a STRAIGHT dude...he feels the need to say 'NO HOMO' after EVERY SINGLE SENTENCE....all I say to him is:

I DON'T WANT YOU...so by telling me that you're just sounding real stupid...just because I'm gay doesn't mean I want every boy I talk to!

So *hint hint* to all of the straight boys and girls out there, KEEP your shirt on...I respect you and will not do anything to convert or seduce you into switching teams. (The GayGay Promise :) )

Now let's put the situation on the opposite foot...what if we, as a LGBT Community were to go around saying 'NO HETERO' to people OVER and OVER and OVER again? You would feel uncomfortable and would not want to hear that anymore, right?

So......HELLOOOO!!!! How do you think we feel when we hear it from you?

So, in the end, the usage of the phrase 'No HOMO' is a useless term/saying that does not need to be used anymore...and/or should be used to a STRONG MINIMUM! You know who YOU are and you know what orientation you are...if people see you a different way, LET 'EM! You know the truth and you're mature enough to ignore it.

Jeffrey || Jeleon

Jeffrey

He is a very humble and vulnerable person...his heart is full of love and care. He cares for the people that he holds close to them, and welcomes everyone that wants to be with him. He shows his love and affection more than he tells you. He puts his best foot forward and looks back on what he has done if he done anyone harm, very apologetic. He never lets hatred and anger get to him. He turns his cheek like he was taught by the people that came before him. Although his traits and personalites benefit himself and others, there are a few in the mists that take his personality for granted...people benefit off of his generosity and affection towards others but in the end, when they're done taking what they need...they leave him alone. His relationships end in pain because many of the times he's been taken for granted. He loves hard, he loves strong, but sadly his love is the only love that is visible. This is Jeffrey...and this is his life.

Jeleon

Given to him by his grandfather, this nickname is the perfect example of his other side. He is very wild, unpredictable, aggressive, mischeivous, and somewhat carefree. He lives life as if it were his last. He does what he does and doesn't look back. He reacts to disrespect and banishes all negativity that surrounds him. He loves getting in trouble and being a bad boy. He never heard of love and would rather not know it. He is very strong when it comes to rejection as opposed to his other side, Jeffrey. Although it may sound as if this side is the worst, there is some good in him. He gives life to the lifeless, fun to the boring, and hype to the syke. He doesn't press about friends but wouldn't mind getting 1 or 2. Because he tends to be real, like Jeffrey, he has many haters. But unlike Jeffrey, Jeleon ignores it and walks on because he know that they are only making him famous. He speaks his mind only because he wants to be real. He hates fakes and don't associate with them. He is good the way he is....but seeks someone to see him out of his ways that are bad. This is Jeleon...and this is his life.

...in the end Jeffrey can be described as the careful, loving, inspiring person. Jeleon is the carefree, partying, aggressive, person. Combined is the life of me.