I LOVE HATE

So, this story MIGHT be a bit short...but I promise that if it is, it will be a POWERFUL message in it. So let's begin:

As you saw the title "I Love Hate" you're probably wondering "What the hell do he mean? Why should I LOVE hate?" Well here's why.

Everyday, we are criticized (whether directly or indirectly) for WHATEVER we do. And there are a number of reasons why they do it...but in my opinion, there's only 2 SOLID reasons why someone has the time and effort to hate on you.

REASON 1: THEY WANT TO FEEL SUPERIOR TO YOU!
They feel if they can break you down or make you feel any less than you were, then they have won! Most people that do this have nothing better going on in their lives and decides to pick on the first person they see doing something productive or something OTHER than what they're doing. Haters only come when success is on your mind and you're on the way to it. So they figure if they can stop you in your tracks and make you quit or give up, THEY SUCCEED. But what they fail to realize is that they, in return, won't be successful. HATING or being a HATER is a round trip vacation to nowhere. And the second reason plays into this reason.

REASON 2: THEY'RE INSECURE!
They are ALREADY intimidated by your strive to success and they see that you're doing YOU! So they feel inferior and start questioning themselves! Which brings forth the INSECURITY issues! If they didn't feel that way, then they wouldn't be trying to attack you. If they know their doing their thing then they should be supporting others or help one another to accomplish the common goal....SUCCESS! You do not have to put anyone down just to build yourself up...haven't we heard of asking for help on HOW TO GET ON THE GRIND? But in this "Dog Eat Dog" world..people only think that we gotta kill each other's pride to get to the PRIZE! Which is NOT the way to go. If someone hates on you, then don't take it seriously. They're only speaking out of the insecurities and the failures in their life. You should worry when no one's hating on you!

When that one is not being hated on, they themselves start to hate on...no one will ever know how it feels until the shoe is on their foot. My advice is to KEEP doing what you do! When you ignore negativity, it ceases. Negativity only fuels when you add to the fire. When you respond, you give them a reason to keep trying you. Because now they're in your mind! If someone can get in your head, THEY OWN YOU! Take your risks and put that middle finger up to WHOEVER opposes it. If you let haters direct your path, then you'll only be going where they want you to go.....NOWHERE!

So, think of your haters as UNPAID PROMOTERS that are fans of you. You gotta get your name out there to get known right? One person can't do it alone, so let the haters do your job! That way...everyone will know you before you get out there. Because trust, for every ONE hater, there are a MILLION of supporters!!! Just remember to THANK THEM!


I leave with this quote I came up with: TO ENTERTAIN THE IGNORANCE, MAKES YOU THE IGNORANT...TO IGNORE THE IGNORANCE, MAKES THEM YOUR ENTERTAINMENT!


Much love......even to my HATERS! ;)